Meet Amy

I have struggled with the answer when asked, "What do you do?" and it isn't work-related. Ultimately, we settled on that I find things and untangle things. But I also read (a lot), pretend to wake surf, and watch Hallmark films.

Amy's bookshelf: 2024

The Weekend Away
it was amazing
So so good! Orla and Kate are long-time best friends off on a girls' weekend away. Kate is a bit of a player who is trying to get back at her soon-to-be-ex, causing her to spend frivolously and do drugs and hook-ups. Orla is a new mom ex...
tagged: 2024, audible-books, five-stars, thriller, and thoughtful
Written Off
really liked it
tagged: 2024, cozy, easy, and four-stars
Maybe Next Time
really liked it
Parts were a screaming 5 and parts were like “what?” And just irritated me. It is a Groundhog Day premise about a family of four - the mom is caught up in her own life and missing all that is going on around her with her kids and then he...
tagged: 2024, audible-books, fiction, four-stars, and thoughtful

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Bear River Bird Refuge

Have you ever been to a bird refuge?

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Has your family walked (or driven) through wetlands while losing count of the beautiful birds you’ve encountered?

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How far would you be willing to travel for the opportunity to view a group of pelicans gathering?

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On Earth Day, our family was drawn to the bird refuge in hopes of seeing baby birds. We were too early but still managed to see the birds pairing off and preparing nests for their future family.

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If you go during the week, you can stop in the visitors center and learn about all of the types of birds you will find out on the loop. They also have signs up throughout the drive to educate you a little more.

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Be prepared for gnats galore! Take an allergy pill. Bring you biggest zoom lens. Drive very slowly. And good luck keeping track of the number of birds you will see.

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Alma the Younger and the Sons of Mosiah Repent

Primary 4 Lesson 14

During our lives, each of us will sin.  We will sin many many times because we are not perfect.  Heavenly Father knows that we are not perfect but He does love us.

For my class, I have prepared a backpack filled with bags of rocks.  These bags each have a label.  Because my class is filled with 8-9 year olds, the sins that I have included are lying, being mean, talking back, gossiping, disobeying, cheating and judging.  If I were giving this lesson to teenagers or adults, there would be many other sings that I would add.  And the bag would have the potential of being very very heavy.

I will have each of the children lift the backpack and share with the class what it feels like to carry that much weight on their backs.

Sin is just like the backpack.  Although you can’t see what is in the backpack, it is obvious that there is something heavy that you are carrying.  Because Christ died for us, there is a way to lighten our load and potentially remove the backpack altogether.

As we take each of the bags out of the backpack, I will discuss each sin.  Some of the sins cause a lighter load than others.  But together they make the burden heavier than we can bare.  Each of these sins keep us from drawing closer to our Heavenly Father.  Each of these sins keep us from building a strong bond with our families.

How can we remove the burden of these sins?  Christ said that He is the light and the way and that only through Him can we return to our Father in Heaven.  Only because of Christ can we repent of our sins.

What does it mean to repent?  In Alma chapter 36 we can read what we need to do to repent.  To summarize, we need to do these following steps…

  1. Recognize sin.
  2. Confess the sin and pray for forgiveness.
  3. Do our best to make up for the wrong.
  4. Forsake the sin.
  5. Obey the commandments and live more like the Savior

The story for today’s lesson helps all of us see that we can repent, even though sometimes it will be hard to literally right the wrong, we can make things better.

Because I like using different media sources for my lesson, I will show the children the Book of Mormon videos.  The first is called “Alma the Younger Repents” and the second is called “The Sons of Mosiah become Missionaries”. (I have linked to the PDF version of the children’s Book of Mormon stories).

The story tells us of how Alma’s son, Alma and his friends (who were the sons of King Mosiah) tried to destroy the church despite their fathers’ efforts to build the Kingdom of God.  These young men traveled through town tearing down the gospel and professing that it was a bunch of lies. The fathers prayed that their sons would see the truth and that they would quit destroying that which was good.

The sons of Mosiah and Alma the Younger were visited by an angel that told them to stop telling lies.  Alma fell to the ground and could not speak and became very weak.  They took him to his father.  Alma knew what had caused his son to become weak and unable to speak.  He prayed that his son would be once again strong.  After 2 days, Alma awoke and told the people that he had repented and that God had forgiven him.

After that, Alma and the sons of King Mosiah had to right their wrongs so they became missionaries and traveled around sharing the truthfulness of the gospel.

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For this  lesson, in order to get strong participation with the kids, we will play a game.  I’ll divide the kids into two teams and will give a point for each team that gets their question correct.  So that I don’t have kids yelling out the answers, each team will be given a question.  If they can’t answer it, the other team will have a chance to do so.  This way I’ll also be able to guide the discussion a little better.

Here’s the list of questions with the discussion point in parenthesis.

  • Who prayed for Alma and the sons of Mosiah?
  • What did they pray for?  (What do you think your parents pray about when they are praying for you?)
  •  In order to receive answers for their prayers, how did Alma and King Mosiah pray?  (Why is faith important when you are praying?)
  • What happened to Alma the Younger and his friends that showed them the power of God?
  • After Alma and his friends were visited by an angel, what changed for them? (Why is a change of heart important for repentance?)
  • Who helped Alma repent?  (Why do we need to remember the Savior when we confess and repent of our sins?)
  • How did Alma and his friends try to right their wrong? (If you hurt someone’s feelings, how can you right the wrong?  What about if you steal or lie or gossip?)
  • Once they had repented, what did these men do?  (How can becoming a good example help you achieve forgiveness?)
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In closing I will show a first aid kit.
What is a first aid kit used for?
If you have a cut that goes uncleaned or untreated, what can happen to it?
How is a cut like a sin?
Some infections can be so bad that they cause sickness in other people.
Just like serious cuts, we have to take care of our sins.  If we don’t they will fester and swell and become bigger and harder to take care of.
I know we are all going to sin.  I know that I am not perfect.  But more importantly, I know that God loves me and that He gave His only Son so that we could once again be clean.  Even when we can’t right a wrong or we can’t undo the past, we can turn ourselves around and live more like our Savior.  It is a choice.  It’s a choice that we have to make every minute of every day.  It is a choice that I am grateful that we have.
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Journal entry: 
How has repentance changed your life?

 

 

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I Heart Faces- Beautiful Black and White

 

I recently had the opportunity to take some pictures of a group of beautiful girls  Each of the girls were sweet, humble, kind and gorgeous.  As we were wrapping up the shoot, one of the girls put on this great hat and bright red lipstick to match the ribbon on the hat.  I had her stand close to my off camera flash and I stood on a chair so that I was looking at her from above the light.  The pictures turned out so fun, but as the rules state, you can only enter one picture.  So, I had to narrow it down to this one photo…

 

Be sure and check out all of the other “Beautiful Black and White” entries at I Heart Faces.

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Enos Prays - Lesson 9

Enos Prays

Lesson 9

I love the story of Enos.  Whenever I read about Enos or hear him mentioned in General Conference I am reminded of how important it is to really bear my soul in thoughtful prayer – often.

Attention activity:

Raise your hand when you know what I am.

I am not a person, place, or object.

I can be so quiet that no one else can hear, or loud enough that everyone in the room can hear.

I can be used when you are alone or in a group.

I am used any time, any place, under any circumstance.

I am used for gratitude, guidance, comfort, forgiveness, protection, help, good health, or for any other blessing you need for yourself or for someone else.

You use me to talk with Heavenly Father.

What am I?

What are some questions that you have about prayer?

(Write their questions on the board)

Give the kids each the worksheet to use after they watch the video and while you re-tale the story.

Watch the video on Enos and then re-tale the story.  [I really like the way Discovering Sunday School tells the story but I’m going to tell it in my own words]

The story of Enos:

Enos was a faithful young man who believed his father’s words.   He thought often of the things that his father had taught him and evaluated whether or not he was living the way he should.  One day, before he went about his jobs, he felt the need to kneel in prayer and ask for forgiveness.

Enos fell to the ground and “cried unto him in mighty prayer and supplication” for his own soul.

What does “mighty prayer and supplication mean”?

Have you ever prayed in this way?

After a full day of prayer, a voice answered that Enos’ sins were forgiven.

He knew that the Lord would not lie so his guilt immediately went away.

How long did Enos pray?

Why do you think Enos got such a strong answer to his prayer?

After Enos’ sins were forgiven, he asked the Lord how.  The Lord said that Enos’ sins were forgiven because of his faith in Christ he had been made whole.

Once he had heard these words, he felt a strong desire for the welfare of his people and so he continued in prayer.  This time praying that the Nephites would be blessed and know the truthfulness.

Again, after a period of time, and thoughtful prayer, the Lord answered Enos’ prayer and told him that as long as they were faithful he would continue to bless them.

Following his prayer for the Nephites, Enos felt he needed to pray for the Lamanites.

Why would Enos pray for his enemies?

Who could you pray for like Enos prayed for the Lamanites?

The Lord told him the fate of the Lamanites and the Nephites.

He was told that the Lamanites would survive and that the Nephites would die away because of their sins. The Lord also told him that the Lamanites would try and destroy the records of Enos’s people.

Why were these records so important?

What did the Lord promise Enos?

When Enos had finished this mighty prayer, he spent the rest of his life teaching the people of Nephi and prophesying of the things to come.   He even tried to convert the Lamanites.  But they continued to try and destroy the Nephites.

Why did Enos have the faith to preach the gospel his whole life even when the words he shared were not well received and the Lamanites continued to try and kill his people?

What does that tell you about the power of prayer?

How can you make your prayers more sincere and not just words?

Making our prayers more sincere is a challenge even as a grown up.  We can feel like we are just saying our prayers in the morning and evening to knock things off of our to do list.  Sometimes we even get busy and don’t say our prayers as often as we should.   A sincere prayer is a powerful tool.  It is the way we can communicate with our Heavenly Father.  By communication, I mean have a conversation.  The Lord has promised us he will answer our prayers but we have to take the time to listen to him.  Even when we don’t get an immediate answer, we can recognize the answer later when it comes if we are sincere.

 

Activity

Hand each child a fan paper.  Have them fold it into a fan.  Then have them unfold it.  On the left side ask them to write down everything they are thankful to Heavenly Father for and then on the right side ask them to write down everything they can ask Heavenly Father for.  Then fold it back into a fan and fold it in half.  Tie a ribbon at the fold.  Explain to them that the fan will help them as they prepare for their prayers.  They can read through the fan and think of any other things they are grateful for or need to ask for.  It will also serve as a reminder that you always thank the Lord before you ask him.

How does the Lord answer prayers?

When should you pray?

Why should you pray every day and not just when you need something?

Do you think that that was Enos’s only prayer?

Make sure we have answered all of the questions on the chalkboard that the children had about prayer.

In closing I’d like to share my testimony on prayer…

I know that God listens to us when we pray – whether we are praying with great faith, in a quick moment, on our knees or while standing in a line.  He listens to us and knows the needs of our hearts.  I also know that Heavenly Father answers our prayers.  Not always the way we want, when we want or how we want, but He does answer them.  If we are not following all of the steps of prayer – that includes taking time to listen – we will not recognize the answers when they come.  It is a two part conversation.  We can’t ask and then rush away and expect to hear the answer.  Only if we listen will we understand and catch the answer.  Prayer is a wonderful and beautiful part of my day.  It is the part that helps me get out of bed in the morning.  It is the part that gets me through a meeting that I’m conducting.  It is what gives me comfort while my girls are at school and Scott is at work.  It is my foundation.  Knowing that God loves me, listens to me and answers me is what makes me who I am.  The mother that I am is because of prayer.

 

Journal prompt:  What does prayer mean to you?

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That big 4-0 is just around the corner

And I know this because my BFF just did it in January.  I try hard not to think about the next birthday and what it represents to me until after she’s reached the milestone with grace.  Then suddenly I start freaking out and never accept it as happily as she did.  For about a month I quietly freak out about it but try not to make a fuss to others.   At least not until my brother’s birthday.  (But this year I have not been so silent in my misery).

Today is my brother’s birthday.  And that means mine is just days away!!

The thought of turning the big 40 upsets me.  I remember when my mom turned 40 and it seemed so old.  (Granted, I was a teenager and parents were just “old”).  After my birthday hopefully I’ll be able to put it into words why 40 is being so hard.

Last year Scott turned 40.  I thought about putting together a big cruise for anyone and everyone that wanted to join us.  Not only was it his 40th (a very monumental birthday in my mind), but it was also our tenth wedding anniversary.  A cruise with all of our friends and family that wanted to cruise with us sounded like the ideal way to celebrate.  Now, I do know better than to surprise Scott with something that major, so I ran the idea past him (after I had done all of the research).  He thought maybe a trip to Europe in the late Spring sounded like a better idea.  So I quit planning it.  Well, then I got let go from my job of 6 years and we decided it probably wasn’t the best time to plan a big trip.

His 40th came and went.  (At least I did take him to Ruth’s Chris with another couple.  That’s something. Right?)

And then our 10th anniversary came and went.

Melissa’s birthday came and she did it up right.

Party Favors that were all symbolic of the birthday girl.  (Amazing job Rhielle!)

Dessert table filled with sugary delights that were delicious but missed Melissa’s perfect cookies.  (A job beautifully done by Wendy).

Loads of friends from work, running, life and school (20 plus years ago), plus most of her family singing loudly to the birthday girl.

Food that begged you to return for seconds in a way that only The Pizzeria 712 can.

A tribute by her father that was a perfectly timed comedy routine between the two of them.

When I grow up, I want to embrace life-like Melissa does.  I want to celebrate each year and be proud of what I have accomplished – even if my accomplishments aren’t what I had planned 20 years before.

Even grown ups should celebrate their birthday week, not just their day.

 

 

PS – Cake’s by The Chocolate and Cookies by Dippidee

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